Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Acceptance & Reality.

Recently a few people have shown me pictures of physiques they’d like me to help them achieve. Typically the pictures I get are of fitness figure models, body builders or celebrities. I can indeed help them to look similar to this, but it will involve a lot of commitment and dedication, not to mention sweat and tears.

One thing I am is honest and real. I don’t mess around. I paint a realistic picture, I like to encourage personal acceptance, and really think about what is an attainable goal for a person’s lifestyle. Below I am going to outline some health and diet information about two typical “make me look like” bodies.

Fitness Figure Model/Body Builder:
They eat clean, meaning :only whole organic foods, low carbs, plain meals such as boiled chicken and broccoli, and take many supplements such as L-Glutamine and Protein Powders. They have specifically tailored training and diet programs, perform rigorous training routines - lifting heavy weights and executing high intensity training regimes. Finally, before a photo shoot, they get fake tans, dehydrate themselves and have all their hair and makeup done.

Actors/Models:
Eat a low calorie diet which is very rigid and typically low carb. They train for a couple of hours a day, have specifically tailored eating programs and access to their own trainers, chefs and nutritionists 24/7. They also take their “team” on holidays with them. Of course, they have professional hair and makeup done  - but most importantly, don’t forget, their favourite product that gives them the best results: Adobe Photoshop.

So if you’d like to look like either of the above mentioned bodies, I can certainly help you achieve this. However, realistically, do you have the time, money and dedication to achieve this goal?

What I recommend is a better, realistic and attainable goal. This goal is to be the healthiest version of yourself you can possibly be. Throw out the scales, stop looking at the magazines, quit watching infomercials and make your own goals. If you are 5’4, workout regularly, eat a healthy balanced diet, continue to work and socialise, yet stay the same healthy weight and size then you have to accept that is the healthiest version of yourself you can be, and you should be so very proud of that!  

Remember everybody is unique; we are not all exactly the same. Our weight and shape are influenced by many different factors including, gender, age, ethnicity, genes, medical conditions medications, hormone function, mental function… The list goes on. You are you. Simply strive to be the best possible you that YOU can be.

I am actually going through a bit of acceptance and reality myself after a health scare. It has made me think about what my body is really capable of going through and how much I am able to balance without being a detriment to myself. I am now in a period of forced rest, which for me the swimmer, boxer, runner, and weight lifter is quite uncomfortable with (and between you and me finds it a bit scary). However I have had to accept that this is what is happening for me right now, so I need to make the best of the situation. I have always felt too busy to get the little things in life done, but now I actually have that time. I am also going to use this time for relaxation, strengthening and stretching. Being able to do yoga, Pilates and gentle walking gives me great reflection time to recoup and remember what is really important in life.

I have learnt a big lesson from this experience. Exercise and health is important, but balance and living your life is equally important. Unless you are an athlete training for a specific purpose, twice day training and a strict diet that impedes on quality time with family, friends or yourself is not required. When it starts to become an obsession or a chore, take a step back and really think about what it is you are doing and why. We are not all Wonder Women or Supermen. We are human. That means being healthy involves enjoying life.


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